Every time I heard my friends complain about dating losers, I wondered, "What's the reason you can't break up with them?" I never imagined I'd experience that reason firsthand. It's been several years since I got involved with a loser who doesn't do housework or work. I keep thinking, "This time I'm really going to break up with him!" But once he penetrates me, it feels so good that I end up falling in love with him again.